Invite vulnerability, curate intimacy
“Love doesn’t just sit there, like a stone, it has to be made, like bread; re-made all the time, made new. When it was made, they lay in each other’s arms, holding love, asleep.” -Ursula K. Le Guin
Who Is Appropriate for Couple’s Work?
If you are in a relationship, engagement, marriage or “situationship” looking to improve communication, increase understanding, break maladaptive relationship patterns and grow in your partnership, couples therapy is right for you. Whether you are struggling with a recent act of partner betrayal, issues with trust, difficulty with communication, difference in desires and vision or one of the many other hardships life lovingly throws our way, we’ve got you.
*All genders and sexual orientations welcome.
What Does a Session Look Like?
What Methods Are Used?
No one couple is the same. For that reason, our couple’s therapists will carefully assess your current needs and presenting concerns, listen to your desires and goals, and create a trauma-informed therapeutic cocktail (alcohol-free, of course 🙂 of various techniques and modalities, including but not limited to: EFT (Emotionally-Focused Therapy), Gottman principles, Attachment Theory, Motivational Interviewing, CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) and more. These fancy terms primarily mean that sessions will aim to incorporate skills, conversations and education to attune partners towards one another by digging beneath the surface to uncover resentments and needs, communicate feelings, challenge negative core beliefs, establish or re-establish safety and trust and, ultimately, work as a team rather than opponents.
Our therapists can also facilitate a Therapeutic Separation, if and when appropriate or requested. A Therapeutic Separation is similar to a legal one but different in that the end goal and motivator is to resolve issues and move towards reconciliation, rather than termination. If the couple, ultimately, decides that parting ways is best, the couples sessions can serve as a safe place to process, plan and amicably part.
Meet Our Couples Therapists